Relationships are ephemeral

 Like the title said, this is the statement I'm hearing for past few days and it is resonating with me. As a person who overthinks and overanalyzes everything, this brings some peace or something. I don't know how to explain it. Im very sure nobody is going to even read this even. I will tell you about a date i recently went on. We met on a dating app. the person was all nice , was very understanding and our first date was on a train and it was very sweet. It felt like that would go on for sometime. finally I felt like there was some person who would be there for me. Then there was this second date and everything went pretty well other than my date came late for 35 minutes.( ahh before that he cancelled 2 dates before) . I should have noticed those signs. but I was blind truth to be told. The day after the second date, person just cut me off, messages became dry, no calls, slow replies... kind of person was trying to ghost me and I was ghosted. I don't know what happened, i trust people's words and everything was good till night and in the morning something changed. Everyone is not for everyone thats fine, but the thing is people should communicate it properly.  For me what i felt between us was beautiful and even though there was no closure, it was nice. The person might never returns back or never even realizes it but you give me some beautiful moments to cherish and im thankful for that. "What you did was wrong, but your presence mattered. All the best for your future endeavours. I know you have many big plans and i genuinely wish it all to become true."